Wednesday, December 30, 2009

How We Spent Our Christmas and Why Did Santa Break My Bike?

Late November and December have been very busy times. Christmas came very fast this year and I begrudgingly decided to use our fake Christmas tree for the holiday. I hated to do it and the tree is only 4ft tall but with all the holiday prep we just didn't see getting a real tree as a good choice for us this year. The little tree still looked great once we got it up and decorated and even though all the presents didn't fit "under" it we were able to surround it!

Mike and I also tried to squeeze in some Christmas activities. I had some grand ideas with almost one activity planned a night but Rooney got sick and then the rest of us got sick so we only did one or two things. For the first time we went to Coulon Beach and saw the famous Clam Lights. The light display was pretty impressive but it was incredibly cold the night we went. We quickly walked the lights, snapped a few photos and left as soon as we could. I also was finally able to get Rooney and Ailbe's picture taken with Santa Claus. We went to Factoria Mall and had the same Santa we had in previous pictures. I was later told that they have had the same Santa for 30 years!















Speaking of photos! The day after Thanksgiving the photography company that took Ailbe's birth announcement photo came out to take a 1 month later photo of her. We had them also take a photo of both the kids together. We finally got the pictures last week and we think they're pretty cute. As you can see Ailbe has grown alot. We had her 2 month check up on December 22nd. Ailb's has almost doubled her birth weight and is now weighing in at 12-1/2lbs. She has also grown a few inches and is 23" long. Her new cousin Lexy is probably taller than her still but she is now in the 75% for height. Of course she is also in the 85% for weight. Her temporary nickname is Chubs. Can't call a girl that for much longer but it's pretty cute and fitting right now. I would hate to have a 2 year old sticking a finger down her throat so we've got to come up with something else pretty soon.



Grandma Peggie came out for Christmas on the 22nd. This is an annual visit for her and she stayed with us for most of the visit. Thankfully this year we did not have a White Christmas and we were able to get out and about. On the 23rd we went to Westlake Center in Seattle. We took the new light rail directly to Westlake and met up with The Howards. They have a beautiful carousel down there which Mike took Rooney on twice. It was pretty crowded so we didn't get to have a fancy dinner or anything but by the time we were able to get something to eat the food court food was fantastic! I think Rooney really enjoyed the train ride and of course his time with his Cousin Felix.

Christmas Eve we went to the Howards and had the Wade family tradition of pizza for dinner and exchanged gifts for the kids. We had a nice time catching up with family. Rooney and Felix played a ton of course and Megan came up from CA. Christmas Eve night was a little stressful. Santa got Rooney a bike and it needed to be assembled. The hand brakes proved to be a problem for Santa and a vital screw may have been snapped. Santa and Mrs. Claus decided that the bike was cheaply made and that coaster brakes may not be enough with some of the hills we have here. Christmas morning Rooney did not wake up to the bike under the tree that we had hoped but the day after Christmas Santa took back the broken bike and picked up a preassembled one that is much cooler. So on December 26th Rooney came downstairs to a new bike. He let us know that we could "take that bow off!". I guess he felt it looked girly. I'll add more Christmas photos on Flickr soon.

Rooney is saying alot of funny stuff these days. Of course since I'm behind on the blog alot of it isn't written down. He is still telling his famous jokes. It's amazing how they just come off the top of his head. He told us one the other night that was pretty funny. He said "Why do bears have babies?" and of course we said 'Why?". Then he hit us with the punchline. I did not see this one coming and he said "because they want ornaments with chocolate in them!". You can see why I didn't expect this punchline since it did not have an eyeball, in your face or banana in it. Funny nonetheless. One last interesting thing I should mention is that Cheesie has made a reemergence in Rooney's life. Not Baby Cheesie since he's been lost a long time but Momma Cheesie! One night we were reading Froggy Goes to Bed (which we call Rooney goes Night-Night (Froggy is Rooney & we replace all references of Froggy with Rooney upon his insistence). Froggy loses his huggy (aka Cheesie) and finds it in the book. When we were reading it Rooney still had us say Cheesie instead of Huggy and then asked for his Momma Cheesie. She's been sleeping with him ever since. For some reason that makes me feel really good.

Friday, December 11, 2009

We're All Mathletes Here!

I have been wanting to post for the last week or so but time really just keeps slipping past. Since I last wrote there have been a few developments. One I am embarassed to write about. You would think Mike and I were new to this whole parenting thing! So in my last post I talked about how Ailbe seemed to go from tiny to chub in less than 60 seconds. We were a bit mystified but also not because that's what babies do...they grow and get chubby. Well the other day I was rereading the instructions on her formula canister when I realized we were giving her the wrong amount. We have been giving her 1 scoop per ounce of water and according to the package we should have been giving her 1 scoop per 2 ounces! We don't know how long we were giving her too much mix but we do know at some point we were giving her the correct amount because we remember doing 1/2 scoops. I suspect we started giving her too much around the time she really started chubbing up but that is just a hunch. Since we have corrected the amount we have been feeding her she is eating more often but thankfully she is still a good sleeper at night. Whew! She even slept through the whole night last night! 7 weeks! I have to look back through the posts when Rooney was born and find out when he slept through the whole night. He was pretty young too. Besides sleeping through the night Ailbe is also smiling.

Ailbe has smiled since she was first born and it wasn't gas but the smiling now is different. I think she is honestly happy now when she's smiling now and it's not just a reflex like maybe it was before. Either way it was beautiful.

Rooney is still being a great big brother and just adores his sister. He is picking out things Ailbe should get for Christmas. Mostly anything pink, princessy or a doll he feels she should have. He loves to give her hugs and kisses and really likes being a helper with her. I've been looking for any signs of jealousy but so far there haven't been any. Not even any resentment over having to be quiet when she's sleeping or Mom not being able to do whatever he wants because I'm feeding her. We've of course been up to our normal activities and he is still really enjoying his swimming lessons and karate. Mike and I have been trying to get the house ready for Christmas but to be honest I'm not quite ready for all that just yet. We decided to use our fake tree this year and our decorations are only half up. Mike and Rooney got most of the lights on the house but our yard decorations are lacking and inside the house hasn't been touched yet. Hopefully this weekend.

Rooney did get to see Santa at least once so far. We went to the Reindeer Festival at Cougar Mountain Zoo. After a lot of hesitation Rooney finally decided he was ready to see Santa. He wouldn't sit on his lap but he did sit on a stool next to Santa and me and told him he wanted Transformers and stuffed animals for Christmas. I think the stuffed animal request was due to the fact that we had just been in the zoo gift shop but he gave Santa quite a little list. Thankfully Santa was familiar with the Transformer Bumble Bee so they had a connection. Now I have to make sure he gets one!

Saturday, November 28, 2009

Got Some Butter To Go With Those Biscuits?

Life with two kids has been crazy and it's not crazy because they're demanding alot. Rooney maybe even less so. It's been crazy because of the constant retraining of how to organize your life. We're still working on it but we've been learning a few tricks. One of which is I have recently taught Rooney how to open all the baby gates in the house. We really weren't using them much for him anymore and it became a hassle when I would ask him to get something and he would say "I can't the gate is locked!". Mike did make the rule with him that if the gate is closed he has to re-close it behind him. He's been pretty good with it so far and now there's no excuse why he can't get his shoes.

Rooney having full access to the house now is also a little bittersweet. It's just another reminder that he is getting so big. I knew once Ailbe was born Rooney was going to look even more mature than he was and he is. Now when I look at him I see "kid" and I can easily see him as a 7 year old or a 10 year old. All legs and arms and laughing himself silly over a fart joke. It's not far off because he is already doing it. Ailbe is changing alot herself. All of a sudden she went from tiny little pink thing to cutie pie butterball. She definitely has the chubby cheeks, biscuit arms and legs. When did that happen? She's starting to grow out of her newborn clothes and it's all happening so fast! The other night I just held her because I feel like I don't get to hold her like I want to. I always have to put her down for one reason or the next. I know I got alot more snuggle time in with Rooney so I really have to make sure I get them in before it's too late. I won't get her just laying there for much longer.

Meanwhile, our life is still go, go, go and we're still trying to do fun things with our friends. Now that I'm off bedrest we can be active with AMAT again. Here's a few pics of things we've been doing lately...





















...and just because she looks so cute...

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Time To Transition

It's over! My month of Mike being home is totally over and it went by so fast. I have to say I am pretty nervous about next week. Ailbe has been a stellar baby but getting out of the house on time has always been my Achilles heel with Rooney. Getting two kids fed, dressed and in the car on a schedule almost seems impossible at this point. I've had a couple of attempts on getting ready, getting Ailbe ready and then picking Rooney up from preschool. Even with running out the door with my hair wet the soonest I could get there was 5 minutes late. Rooney's been handling it great but Mom not so much. Mike and I just recently started wondering how we are going to work the gym in with our schedules. It was so easy with Rooney but now with 2 kids we are starting to realize there are new obstacles. We're both really motivated to get our baby weight off so I know we'll work it out or just one of us will be fit.

Ailbe has really been changing and getting big. I'm not sure how much she weighs now but her cheeks, arms and legs are definitely getting a lot chubbier. She really seems to like when Momma holds her and Momma enjoys it too. Ailbs has been fighting clogged tear ducts/bacterial eye infection over the last couple of weeks. I don't really think it's bothering her but I find it to be pretty gross. I've been washing her eyes several times a day and finally took her to the MD on Wednesday. Her eyes are now clearing up and I can finally kiss her again (just kidding I was still giving her kisses).

As I said before Rooney has been handling the transition to having a little sister really well but he had been getting up at night. Most nights he would get up as much as Ailbe or more. The good thing about when he gets up is that we can immediately put him back into bed the bad thing is that he storms into our room and throws the door open. The door almost always hits the closet door behind it which makes a ton of noise and quite often Roon has turned on the hall light which is quite blinding when he throws the door open. Rooney will come in practically shouting and then will fumble with the pocket door on our bathroom as he goes to use it. He will generally leave that door open and then flip on the bathroom light, which is right across from where I sleep. Then with the light fully lit he will ask "Is that OK?". Nothing is OK about the situation but you just want to go back to sleep. Anyway, there have been some ugly mornings because of this but the other night I think I finally convinced him that it would be to his benefit to play in his room until 8am. Mom and Dad will be alot less grumpy and he has a much better chance of being able to watch "his shows" in the morning if Mom and Dad are happy campers. So far it has been working to both of our benefits and he has stayed in his room and I don't think he has been up more than once at night. Woo hoo!

Sometimes you CAN reason with a 4 year old and I love it.

Thursday, November 05, 2009

October Wrap-Up

It's been over two weeks since Ailbe's been born. So far Mike and I have established a schedule for her feedings but unfortunately it looks like that might all get thrown out the window once he goes back to work. Ailbe has been a pretty great baby so far, almost a bit boring. She sleeps most of the day except when she's eating and wakes up about twice a night. Not that we're complaining. The biggest problems have really been with Rooney. He has been getting up several times a night, most nights, for various reasons. Last night he got up once legitamitely to use the bathroom (not sure why he couldn't use his though) and then twice more just to have me put him back to bed I think. Maybe he missed his momma while he was sleeping.

Grandma and Grandpa Wade have been out here since late October to help us with Rooney. He is so active and needs to be kept busy that we thought it would be really helpful to have someone here to help with that. Mike and I didn't really know how I would be feeling after this c-section with being on bedrest for so long and with it being the second. So far I've been feeling pretty good. The first week was of course the hardest, and I didn't get to lay around as much as I would have liked. The second week I felt better and could move around alot more easily. If I'm out and about too much I will have some discomfort but that's what I have pain meds for, right?

I think that Rooney was/is having a small issue with mom being in the hospital and being gone so much the last couple of months. By the time Grandma and Grandpa Wade arrived he was getting pretty clingy to Mike and I. They've been great with taking him places most days. Sometimes Rooney is concerned if Mike and I will be home when he gets home but he's been going to alot of fun places like Chuck E. Cheese, Woodland Park Zoo, Seattle Aquarium, the pumpkin patch and some Active Moms and Tots events. Thankfully Roon has still been able to see some of his buds during this time as well.

Halloween was a lot of fun for us. We were somewhat unprepared as we were still carving pumpkins on Halloween and only decorating the house the night before but trick or treating could hardly be un-fun and Roon's buds Charlie, Clara and Felix came over to trick or treat with him. What a great night! Costumes, candy, buds and getting to go outside after dark! There may have been a few meltdowns that night but it was all worth it.

Sunday, November 01, 2009

The Mythology of Ailbe

I would like to say that we have a great story for naming Ailbe what we did, but we don't. I came across the name long before I was even pregnant, loved it and eventually used it. The name was Celtic, which I liked, and other than that I just thought it was pretty and I could hear Rooney saying it.

Not long ago I was looking her name up on the internet. I came across a couple of stories of famous Ailbe's and thought they were very interesting. The first story is of St. Ailbe, the Patron Saint of Wolves (this story is found on www.mainlesson.com). Hmmmm that must just be a coincidence but the connection with dogs was comforting. The other story is of Celtic Mythology and Ailbe of the Freckled Cheeks (that will probably also be a coincidence). This story can be found on High Kings.

THE WOLF-MOTHER OF SAINT AILBE

This is the story of a poor little Irish baby whose cruel father and mother did not care anything about him. But because they could not sell him nor give him away they tried to lose him. They wrapped him in a piece of cloth and took him up on the mountain side, and there they left him lying all alone on a bush of heather.

Now an old mother wolf was out taking her evening walk on the mountain after tending her babies in the den all day. And just as she was passing the heather bush she heard a faint, funny little cry. She pricked up her pointed ears and said, "What's that!" And lo and behold, when she came to sniff out the mystery with her keen nose, it led her straight to the spot where the little pink baby lay, crying with cold and hunger.

The heart of the kind mother wolf was touched, for she thought of her own little ones at home, and how sad it would be to see them so helpless and lonely and forgotten. So she picked the baby up in her mouth carefully and ran home with him to her den in the rocks at the foot of the mountain. Here the little one, whose name was Ailbe, lived with the baby wolves, sharing their breakfast and dinner and supper, playing and quarreling and growing up with them. The wolf-mother took good care of him and saw that he had the best of everything, for she loved him dearly indeed. And Ailbe grew stronger and stronger, taller and taller, handsomer and handsomer every day, living his happy life in the wild woods of green Ireland.

Now one day, a year or two after this, a hunter came riding over the mountain on his way home from the chase, and he happened to pass near the cave where Ailbe and the wolves lived. As he was riding along under the trees he saw a little white creature run across the path in front of him. At first he thought it was a rabbit; but it was too big for a rabbit, and besides it did not hop. The hunter jumped down from his horse and ran after the funny animal to find out what it was. His long legs soon overtook it in a clump of bushes where it was hiding, and imagine the hunter's surprise when he found that it had neither fur nor horns nor four feet nor a tail, but that it was a beautiful child who could not stand upright, and whose little bare body ran on all-fours like a baby wolf! It was little Ailbe, the wolf-mother's pet, who had grown so fast that he was almost able to take care of himself. But he was not quite able, the hunter thought; and he said to himself that he would carry the poor little thing home to his kind wife, that she might take care of him. So he caught Ailbe up in his arms, kicking and squealing and biting like the wild little animal he was, and wrapped him in a corner of his great cloak. Then he jumped on his horse with a chirrup and galloped away out of the woods towards his village.

But Ailbe did not want to leave his forest home, the wolf-den, and his little wolf brothers. Especially he did not want to leave his dear foster mother. So he screamed and struggled to get away from the big hunter, and he called to the wolves in their own language to come and help him. Then out of the forest came bounding the great mother wolf with her four children, now grown to be nearly as big as herself. She chased after the fleeting horse and snapped at the loose end of the huntsman's cloak, howling with grief and anger. But she could not catch the thief, nor get back her adopted son, the little smooth-skinned foundling. So after following them for miles, the five wolves gradually dropped further and further behind. And at last, as he stretched out his little arms to them over the hunter's velvet shoulder, Ailbe saw them stop in the road panting, with one last howl of farewell. They had given up the hopeless chase. And with their tails between their legs and their heads drooping low they slunk back to their lonely den where they would never see their little boy playmate any more. It was a sad day for good wolf-mother.

But the hunter carried little Ailbe home with him on the horse's back. And he found a new mother there to receive him. Ailbe never knew who his first mother was, but she must have been a bad, cruel woman. His second mother was the kind wolf. And this one, the third, was a beautiful Princess. For the hunter who had found the child was a Prince, and he lived in a grand castle by a lake near Tipperary, with hundreds of servants and horses and dogs and little pages for Ailbe to play with. And here he lived and was very happy; and here he learned all the things which in those days made a little boy grow up into a wise and great man. He grew up so wise and great that he was made a Bishop and had a palace of his own in the town of Emly. People came to see him from far and near, who made him presents, and asked him questions, and ate his dinners.

But though he had grown so great and famous Ailbe had never forgotten his second mother, the good wolf, nor his four-footed brothers, in their coats of gray fur. And sometimes when his visitors were stupid and stayed a long time, or when they asked too many questions, or when they made him presents which he did not like, Ailbe longed to be back in the forest with the good beasts. For they had much more sense, though they had never kissed the Blarney Stone, which makes one talk good Irish.

A great many years afterwards there was one day a huge hunt in Emly. All the lords for miles around were out chasing the wild beasts, and among them was the Prince, Ailbe's foster-father. But the Bishop himself was not with them. He did not see any sport in killing poor creatures. It was almost night, and the people of Emly were out watching for the hunters to return. The Bishop was coming down the village street on his way from church, when the sound of horns came over the hills close by, and he knew the chase was nearing home.

Louder and louder came the "tantara-tara!" of the horns, and then he could hear the gallopy thud of the horses' hoofs and the yelp of the hounds. But suddenly the Bishop's heart stood still. Among all the other noises of the chase he heard a sound which made him think—think—think. It was the long-drawn howl of a wolf, a sad howl of fear and weariness and pain. It spoke a language which he had almost forgotten. But hardly had he time to think again and to remember, before down the village street came a great gaunt figure, flying in long leaps from the foremost dogs who were snapping at her heels. It was Ailbe's wolf-mother.

He recognized her as soon as he saw her green eyes and the patch of white on her right foreleg. And she recognized him, too,—how I cannot say, for he had changed greatly since she last saw him, a naked little sunbrowned boy. But at any rate, in his fine robes of purple and linen and rich lace, with the mitre on his head and the crozier in his hand, the wolf-mother knew her dear son. With a cry of joy she bounded up to him and laid her head on his breast, as if she knew he would protect her from the growling dogs and the fierce-eyed hunters. And the good Bishop was true to her. For he drew his beautiful velvet cloak about her tired, panting body, and laid his hand lovingly on her head. Then in the other he held up his crook warningly to keep back the ferocious dogs.

"I will protect thee, old mother," he said tenderly. "When I was little and young and feeble, thou didst nourish and cherish and protect me; and now that thou art old and gray and weak, shall I not render the same love and care to thee? None shall injure thee."

Then the hunters came tearing up on their foaming horses and stopped short to find what the matter was. Some of them were angry and wanted even now to kill the poor wolf, just as the dogs did who were prowling about snarling with disappointment. But Ailbe would have none of it. He forbade them to touch the wolf. And he was so powerful and wise and holy that they dared not disobey him, but had to be content with seeing their hunt spoiled and their prey taken out of their clutches.

But before the hunters and their dogs rode away, Saint Ailbe had something more to say to them. And he bade all the curious townsfolk who had gathered about him and the wolf to listen also. He repeated the promise which he had made to the wolf, and warned every one thenceforth not to hurt her or her children, either in the village, or in the woods, or on the mountain. And turning to her once more he said:—

"See, mother, you need not fear. They dare not hurt you now you have found your son to protect you. Come every day with my brothers to my table, and you and yours shall share my food, as once I so often shared yours."

And so it was. Every day after that so long as she lived the old wolf-mother brought her four children to the Bishop's palace and howled at the gate for the porter to let them in. And every day he opened to them, and the steward showed the five into the great dining hall where Ailbe sat at the head of the table, with five places set for the rest of the family. And there with her five dear children about her in a happy circle the kind wolf-mother sat and ate the good things which the Bishop's friends had sent him. But the child she loved best was none of those in furry coats and fine whiskers who looked like her; it was the blue-eyed Saint at the top of the table in his robes of purple and white.

But Saint Ailbe would look about him at his mother and his brothers and would laugh contentedly. "What a handsome family we are!" he would say. And it was true.

High King- Cormac Mac Airt

Cormac was the son of Art and grandson of Conn Cétchathach, high king of Ireland. He succeeded his grandfather after his death. Cormac ruled during the time when Finn Mac Cumhaill was captain of the Fianna, the high king's personal bodyguards and the elite force of warriors during the time of war.

Cormac Mac Airt was considered to be a great high king, ruling Ireland with wisdom and justice, which the Tuatha Dé Danann thought very highly of him.

Cormac married Eithne (probably Eithne Tháebfhota) and was the father of two sons: Cairbre Lifechair and Cellach. Cormac was also the father of two daughters named Gráinne (Grainne) and Ailbe Grúadbrecc (Ailbe of the Freckled Cheeks).


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In the tale, titled Echtrae Cormaic (The Adventure of Cormac), which was found in several manuscripts, it tells of his travel into the otherworldly Tir Tairgire (Land of Promise).

Cormac met a warrior at Tara, who has a branch with three golden apples. When the branch was shaken, beautiful, unearthly music could be heard. The warrior would only give the branch only if Cormac would give him three wishes; the high king agreed.

After a year, the warrior returned to Tara, and the first wish was Cormac's daughter, Ailbe. So the king gave his daughter to the nameless warrior. In the following month, the warrior returned with his second wish: Cairbre Lifechair, Cormac's son. Cormac readily agreed, so the warrior took Cairbre. When the warrior asked for Eithne, Cormac angrily refused to surrender his wife. So the warrior spirited Eithne out of Tara, and escaped from pursuit, using his magic. The warrior enevloped the land with strange mist, so Cormac became lost.

After various adventures, Cormac came upon a dun, where his host offered him hospitality. His host told the king that the pig he has on a spit could not be cooked until he could tell a story that was true. So Cormac recount the event of what had happened to him, and how he lost his wife, daughter and son to a nameless warrior. At the end of the story, the roasted pig was ready.

However, it seemed that Cormac has a geis, where he can't dine until there was in the company of fifty. His host caused the king to fall asleep, so when he woke, he found himself seated with fifty warriors, as well as his missing wife and children.

The nameless warrior introduced himself as Manannán Mac Lir. Manannán showed three pieces of a golden cup. It was the cup of truth: three lies will break the cup and three truths will restore the cup. So Manannán told the king that Eithne had slept with no other man since she had left Tara. His daughter Ailbe was still a virgin and his son Cairbre had not slept with any woman. So with three truths, the broken cup was magically restored.

Then Manannán gave the magic cup and branch to Cormac, but must be returned at the end of his reign. The next day the king and his family were returned to Tara. Cormac used the cup during his reign to determine the falsehood from the truth.


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In the Tóraigheacht Dhiarmada agus Ghráinne (The Pursuit of Díarmait and Gráinne), though betrothed to Finn Mac Cumhaill, Gráinne was in love with the younger companion of the Fian captain, Diarmait Ó Duibhne. Her love for Diarmait, caused serious harm to the friendship of two Fian warriors. Cormac and Angus Óg (foster-father of Diarmait) made an uneasy peace between Finn and Diarmait, where Finn married another daughter of Cormac. However, it in tragedy when Finn refused to heal Diarmait, who was mortally wounded by wild boar. In some version, the tale ended with Diarmait's death, while in other versions, Gráinne ended up marrying Finn. While in one version, Finn married Ailbe Grúadbrecc (Ailbe of the Freckled Cheeks) at the intervention of Angus Og, after Finn made peace with Diarmait.

Cormac became emboiled in a war against the Dananns, when Cellach raped a niece of Angus Óg. Cellach was Cormac's nephew. During a battle, Cellach was killed and the king lost one of his eyes. This barred him from kingship. Without any choice, Cormac Mac Airt abdicated.

His son Cairbre Lifechair succeeded him as high king of Ireland. Unlike his father, Cairbre did not like the Fianna.

Sunday, October 25, 2009

Chickity China The Chinese Chicken

As of tomorrow it will be a week since Ailbe has been born. Of course time has flown by and it seems like she has always been here. So far our daily life really hasn't changed much except that Grandma was here for a week. It's mostly felt like a long weekend to me. Since I am still recovering from the c-section I have alot of the same limitations I did when I was pregnant and on bedrest, so it probably hasn't been that different for Rooney either.

Ailbe has been a great baby! I hate to even say anything in fear I might jinx it. Since she was born she was a champ eater and seemingly a good sleeper. As I've told everyone I was really worried at first. When she was born she came out crying. She didn't have the low cry that Rooney had either. It was full lunged. I kind of thought "Crap, we're in for it". However after she ate that day she became a little dreamboat and hasn't stopped since.

Ailbe has basically been sleeping through the night. It was hard to gauge in the hospital because they want you to wake the baby every few hours plus the nurses are in your room every couple of hours so they wake the baby. When we got home my mom took Ailbe for the first night. I think she was awake, not crying, for a couple of hours and ate a ton. Once she was finally full my mom reported that she slept pretty good. I think she slept 3-4hrs straight that first night. Sadly, by the second day my mom started feeling a cold coming on so we thought it was best to have Ailb's sleep upstairs with us. She only woke up once that night. I think she slept 4-4 1/2hrs straight that night. The next night and last night the same thing only waking up once but the stretches have been longer each night. We are ever so grateful thus far.

Unfortunately we were up 3-4 times with Rooney last night because he had an upset stomach and started throwing up. Several jammie and bedding changes later he finally got settled down and we all slept until 9am this morning. He's been such a good kid through all of this. Grandma said he was just wonderful for her when we were in the hospital and he has just loved his little sister since the day she was born. He gets so excited to help me change her diaper or feed her. He always likes to know where she is and will often rub his cheek on her head. Rooney really seems to love being a big brother and I haven't seen any jealousy yet, except from Courage and Rocco. No, they've been good boys too but maybe we should have taken them to Build a Bear also.

Monday, October 19, 2009

And Baby Makes Four!

Today was kind of a big day. After a restless night's sleep, Susan and I came to the hospital to welcome Ailbe to the world. Everything has gone very well; Ailbe was born at 8:07 this morning, tipping the scales at a svelte 6 lbs, 15 oz (the parents and doctor were shocked; we thought she would be bigger) and 19.75 inches.

So far, she's done a lot of sleeping, something that she has in common with her big brother. The poor guy has been fighting sickness the past 5 days or so, and fell asleep right before Grandma Peggie was going to take him to the hospital to visit Ailbe. He eventually woke up, and although he still said he was sick, managed to cowboy up enough to come in for a visit.

Rooney absolutely loves his sister. He likes holding her and looking at her. She may be in the top 3 favorite things to watch in the whole wide world, but unfortunately she still seems to be running well behind the old boob tube.

Susan is doing pretty well. Because of her itchiness the last time around, she didn't get any additional pain meds during her spinal block. Post surgery, the nurses had some problems getting her fentanyl drip started. They pushed some morphine into her IV to try to get her ahead of the pain. Eventually, she got to be relatively pain free; but then she had to compound everything by turning on "Little People, Big World." When will she learn?

Ailbe has been a very good sleeper, and a decent little eater. She's been a little bit rude to her guests (show a little couth, girl: you can't fall asleep while company is visiting you), but I think they seemed to be pretty forgiving. We were initially worried because she came out very loud and squally, but she's been pretty calm since then. Perhaps she'll let Mom and Dad catch up on some sleep tonight? More photos available on Flickr.

Saturday, October 17, 2009

Nesting

Less than 2 days to go and Ailbe will be here. Now that's we're so close it's so weird to think we'll have another kid in the house. It's just been Rooney for so long. I'm pretty ready to have her out though. Late tonight my mom comes in to help us out. We were hoping for some good sleep before the baby arrives but between late arrivals and Rooney coming down with Croup a couple days ago we don't think that's going to happen. Mike ended up keeping himself up this morning worrying about it. Poor guy missed out on several hours of sleep and of course Rooney was showing us no mercy by getting up at his usual time. Here's hoping tomorrow morning goes better.

The last couple of days I have been trying to get everything in order. I created a list of activities for my mom to take Rooney to plus his usually scheduled ones. We got all the laundry done, bassinet set up and the house has been cleaned. We're still working on the guest room (aka our office) but I think it should be ready by the time my mom comes in tonight. Maybe it's a good thing she is coming in late. Tomorrow my family will come over to celebrate my birthday. It will be the first time in 14 years that I've had any type of birthday celebration with my mom. It's a little stressful (and late) to be doing this being as it's the night before the c-section (we have to get up around 4:30am) but it might be nice to have a distraction.

I really should get that bag packed!

Monday, October 12, 2009

The Final Countdown

For the last few weeks we have hurriedly been trying to wrap up alot of house stuff before Ailbe's arrival. With little time to spare we finally got the nursery 100% finished, painted the living room and dining room (thanks Jim and Liz), sold Rooney's old clothes, bought Ailbe some clothes (and bought, and bought and bought). We've made several trips to Ikea for odds and ends, got Rooney all enrolled in his activities, Courage got his crisis out of the way (the stitches were taken out this weekend), the house cleaners are scheduled to be here this weekend, after tomorrow 2 birthdays will be done for the month and the dogs even got a bath today. What could be left? ALOT!

With everything going on we wanted to take the time before Ailbe comes to spend a little special time with Rooney and have him do something fun for him and Ailbe. Yesterday we took Rooney down to Build A Bear to make a little gift from him to Ailbe and then make a special bud for himself. Rooney picked out the animals and we recorded messages for each one. Rooney even got to name the new buds. Rooney chose a little dog for Ailbe in which he named Huggles. He also recorded a little message that goes inside Huggles that says "I love you Ailbe". For himself he picked out a Teddy Bear with Peace signs all over it. I was a little surprised by his selection because I thought for sure he would pick a dog for himself but he was immediately drawn to the blue bear and was very satisfied with his selection. When Mike and he were trying to figure out what to name him, they were reading through a name suggestion book. The name Elvis came up and Rooney really liked it so the name was chosen. However, it was also easily forgotten because Rooney is still asking me "What's his name again?". Strangely something I found out the day before on Wikipedia- Elvis is the anglicized version of Ailbe. Ooooooo eerie. There will be more on the myth, mystery and folklore of Ailbe in the next post.

Despite all the house getting ready stuff we've been doing I've also been trying to get Rooney out as much as possible to see his friends since we were cooped up for so long. Last week we had the most gorgeous weather and took our annual trip to the pumpkin patch for pictures and pumpkin fun.

Unfortunately mom wasn't nearly as much fun this year and didn't feel she could wander for hours in the corn maze or take a very bumpy hay ride. Thankfully April was there to give wagon rides. The kids had a great time playing in the pumpkins, rolling them around and Rooney even had us recreate a picture we took a year or so before. This kid has a real steel trap memory.

I'm 38 weeks pregnant now, so c-section or not, Ailbe will be here very soon. This time around I feel physically much better than I did at this point with Rooney. I'm ready to be done being pregnant but not with the same desire that I had 4 years ago. It felt like we waited so long for Rooney to finally make his appearance but this time we're scrambling. Like I said she's coming soon regardless so I might need to add "pack bag" to my list.

Tuesday, October 06, 2009

Summer At The Lake


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As promised I was going update what's been going on over the last couple of weeks in separate posts. If I tried to create one post it would be too long and I know some of you stop reading after the first paragraph.

This summer marked the 3rd Annual Summer Visit by Rooney's Grandma and Grandpa Wade. Over the last 3 years they have rented a lake house not far from Aunt Annie's house. The house has a beautiful yard and lake front property, however, due to the off season renting of the house it has rarely been really warm enough to enjoy the lake. That is...until we had our September heat wave this year. Thankfully this has coincided with Rooney's first real ability to utilize the lake with his new swimming skills. Both of these events really provided for some great memories for the Roonster.

To enjoy all the great photos of our time at the lake and to see Mike wearing a neon green inner tube check out the Flickr Photo Set: Lake Morton.

Friday, October 02, 2009

Mile Marker 25

Seems I might have left the blog and you guys hanging after the last post. We've been busy little beavers over here trying to get it together before Ailbe's arrival. We're losing the battle so far but we've been getting some help so there is still hope.

Since so much has happened I will post several posts to cover all the bases. First let's talk about the ECHO appointment. We saw a Pediatric Cardiologist on Sept.14th and after nearly an hour long scan the cardiologist said Ailbe's heart looked great and he also feels that the "mass" that is appearing on ultrasound is just the thymus gland. Whew! The hospital will still do an ultrasound on her chest when she is born but I think everyone feels pretty confident that there isn't anything to worry about. Thankfully I am still scheduled to deliver at Valley since everything looks good.

The picture above is of me today at 36 weeks (soon to be 37). As of Wednesday I have been cleared by the specialists at Maternal-Fetal Medicine and told I could do jumping jacks now if I wanted. Also, I have now been taken off all the meds (other than vitamins) that they had me on. Since I did not go into premature labor, since I did not end up needing the cerclage and since I was thankfully not labeled as having an incompetent cervix (there are probably so many jokes in there), if I were to get pregnant again, my pregnancy could be totally different and may or may not involve bedrest, talk of premature labor and they would not immediately want to do a cerclage. So that's good news. Also after my last OB appointment I found out the baby was engaged at +2. What does that mean? I wasn't really sure so I had to look it up. It means she is in the head down position, in my pelvis and pretty low. That would explain why I have some of the weird pains I have every once in awhile. I believe I read that when the baby is ready to be born they are at +4. The OB didn't seem concerned about early labor though so the plan is still set. She did say if I did not already have a scheduled c-section she thinks I would do fine with a VBAC. I let her know that I'll keep my c-section date and was in no way interested in a VBAC. She said she'd probably feel the same way. It's nice to be on the same page as your OB. She also assured me she would not look at me like a drug addict if I asked to be sent home with Percocet and Vicodin (which is what I had after Rooney). Another whew!

Everyone says to me this must feel like the longest pregnancy ever but it really hasn't. It has actually gone really fast. So much has been going on this last 9 months that even though I was on bedrest for 3 of those I was busy. Plus having a 3 year old I could hardly fixate on what was going on in my belly. This could be the reason that will only a couple weeks left we are running around like a couple of chickens with our heads cut off.

Hopefully Dana doesn't read that last line.

Sunday, September 20, 2009

Wax On, Wax Off

One of the things I really wanted to do with Rooney before I went on bedrest was get him signed up for karate. We were already committed to several classes so I was biding my time. You see what that gets you. Poor Rooney heard months of talk about it before we finally got him signed up.

This month I enrolled Rooney in the Little Ninja's class at a local martial arts studio. I am really impressed with Sensei Ricky. She seems very no nonsense while the studio offers a really nice family atmosphere. Just the sort of class my exuberant little man needs. Loving but ruled with an iron fist. Rooney learned this pretty quickly on his first day. He decided to strip down in the lobby to get his karate outfit on. He happened to be wearing his Power Ranger underwear that day and as he stripped off his pants he thought he would share with everyone that he had them on. I think he thought since it was a karate class the Sensei would be impressed...however she was not.

Despite the rocky start Rooney really seems to enjoy his class and now his buds Charlie and Clara have joined so the gang is almost all here. I'm hoping this teaches him focus (pho-cus as Mike would say) but as long as he is exercising and doing something he enjoys then that's enough. Plus he looks pretty darn cute in his karate (kare-A-te as Mike would say) outfit.